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Wednesday, May 14, 2008
10:42 PM
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been thinking alot recently..high-rich, rich, low-rich, high-average, average, low-average, quite poor, poor, very poor...which of the mentioned category do you fall under?
before i continue blogging what i have been thinking recently, let's go into my life story for the past 2days((:
Tuesday as shuxian went for lesson early in the morning, i woke up later at 9am to go for breakfast and visited the polyclinic to do some checks..the doctor sux in a way that he had this heck-care attitude..OhWell..i wasn't really keen in the first place to visit the doctor..so won't elaborate on it..around 12+pm? after seeing the doctor, took a bus together with Mummy and Evalyn to HDB Hub for Beef Noodle and Rojak!! *yUMYuM* my favourite^^ been keeping in contact with shuxian via sms/mms:) Daddy came over for rojak before we went home..so was watching tv, playing/taking care of evalyn and nearly fell asleep when Shuxian sms me and mentioned about skipping lecture to go home earlier to rest as she was really tired..so decided to meet her up for a cup of bubble tea before she goes home..but hahaz!! when i see her, she was hungry..so we went over to gourmet paradise to had beef noodle again((: though i just ate, i still eat another bowl with her because it was too tempting=PpP after beef noodle, went to get bubble tea from KOI cafe(",) it was my 2nd time drinking it in a day..but heck!! i wanna eat and drink with Shuxian too^^ so after getting the drink, i send her home because i borrowed my dad's car so that i could send her home earlier^-^ bought dinner before going home and yupp!! that's all for tuesday..at night knowing shuxian was busy rushing many things..helped her out until the moment i lie in bed, i instantly entered lala land..but no complains:) did everything willingly=)
Today!! woke up and realise it was raining..after breakfast, did something quite silly but wont be blogging on that..hahz!! it's about something something..then something something..after that something something...anyway i just wont fill the content on this part..=PpP *lalala* (aHsHUShu, if you're reading..you'll know what i mean;):PpP) *bLeAh* shuxian came to my place to play with evalyn and yupp!! evalyn's growing to love her day by day..hehz!! aunty priscilla calls that bias!! because it's just a short time shuxian spent with her and evalyn is sticking to her instead of aunty priscilla who've been seeing her ever since she was born^^ dinner was at Lorong7 where we had FishMeeSua and after that shuxian went home..came home and started playing/taking care of evalyn again..fed her milk and water before patting her to sleep..was about 2130hours that DaJie took over..promised shuxian to napfrom 2030hours until 2230hours but cos was taking care of evalyn and end up not napping..so sms shuxian before i sat on the massage chair to nap..entered lala land at 2200hours i think..then mummy came home and started talking to me..so woke up soon after that to wake shuxian up before i went to makan and do my other stuff..but shuxian went back to sleep-.- lol~ hahz!! but it's ok..she's tired(^^,)
right!! now back to the start of my post...so have you decided which are you? or what will you like to be? i know many will start shooting their mouth off saying STUPID!! of cos wanna be rich..who dun want to be rich? and some will without thinking, starts saying they're poor..very poor.....even when they're working/working part-time/or etc etc...
but so what's the definition of poor? people who sleeps on the street and don't have any shelter above them? how about people who're starving to the extend that they consume tree bark? so in singapore, when you say you're poor, what does it mean actually? or maybe people in singapore who complains of being poor, should use term like hard on cash instead..because they're not really poor afterall? they're just hard on cash..if not they're just being thrifty..(thrifty is just a nicer word to describe, some are purely stingy-_-)
and so what's about being rich? is being rich really that great a thing? beside the comfortable life and worry free thingy..is there any others? won't life be boring if you don't have to worry and just live a comfortable life? getting things that you want without having to work hard for it..why not just become a pig instead? everyday eat and sleep and you'll be given anything and everything before you're being served..
when you're rich, there's no thrill and excitement in life..which spells why many rich people will go around folly fooling..having many sex partners resulting in many single family kids..how about channelling the energy to giving all your money away and get the drive to start earning back those sums? life wont be so boring this way and it'll be filled with excitement...
when you're rich, there're many people around you..but who can be trusted? who're actually true to you? will there really be happiness coming from the heart?
when you're rich, you spend money like nobody's business and lose the grip of finance handling..always spending thousands or hundreds on gifts instead of sincerely making something for your loved ones..spending hundreds on little tiny food instead of donating money to the needs..spending hundreds/thousands to "buy" friends and "show" how wealthy to win girls heart..why not just get a maid? can even help in domestic matters..-.-
those who're busy being/getting rich, where will their freedom go? will they be happy? they'll work and work and work until they passed on because they cant possibly stop half-way after they've started..
all the rich people i know of didnt come to a good end eventually..maybe their offsprings are having the good start instead..but yarr... one of my Daddy's friend, died at the age of 40+..he's so filthy rich that his house is 5times of my condo land area..NOTE!! is not my condo unit area..is the CONDO'S LAND AREA!! yesh he's rich..but he didnt have the life to spend? his whole life he've been workig hard but was unable to even see his own son get a gf or get married with a kid..he just suddenly passed on..so convince me how's cool being rich? one of my uncle was also filthy rich..but down with terminal illness and passed away at 40+ too..imagine...being rich yet unable to save himself.. another one of Daddy's friend, though still alive and kicking, his offspring is not doing that well...both son and daughter has serious skin problems that'll peel from head to toe and i really mean HEAD to TOE..so serious that every week they've to go hospital for treatment.. another one that i know of is rich, yet started many families everywhere..don't even have a proper family and always having bootlickers around..when he's rich, everyone crowd to him..when he's facing problem, everyone goes missing.. there're just so many examples that i know who're rich but lead an unhappy life!!
so i've been thinking hard and trying to think through thoroughly..do i really want to start a business..once started, it cant be stopped..i'll have to work to the route of success..what will i become along the way or at the other end of the route?
now that i'm living in the high-average/average life..i find it really promising because we occasionally goes for expensive food for celebrations, cheap and good food experiencing a change in environment...we're neither here nor there, neither rich nor poor..we get to do things that we want to do which are, enjoy things the poor wont enjoy and experience things the rich wont experience..so it really seems like i've already decided not to start my business..but then...am still hesistating...-.- aHHhh!! signing out~
p.s i realise keeping a diary is afterall better and i guss i'll like to get a diary..at least in the diary, you can write things you really want to spill to keep a record so that you'll never forget..unlike blog, you're restricted to pin down certain stuff/informations...ohwell.....if only i'm not too lazy^^ God Bless~
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